It must be February. The candy aisles are turning pink and red, enticing us to purchase sweets for our sweeties. It’s the month when we compose our own statements of affection or ask Hallmark for help in expressing our amorous feelings.

I’ve said “I love you” to the same man for 35 years, and hope to be able to say that for at least 30 more. His affectionate notes are always clever — he’s given me cards made out of Formica and written humorous parodies of popular music. He entertains me, admires me, and supports me. He’s a keeper.