A recent Accredited Debt Relief survey found that eight in 10 people with at least $10k in unsecured debt skipped at least one event or activity in the last year, including weddings.
The cost isn't just financial. According to the survey, 68% of respondents feel anxiety when receiving an invitation.
A debt consolidation program can help Americans take back control of their finances and allow them to say yes to important celebrations.
Are you considering skipping a loved one's wedding? You're not alone. Weddings aren't just expensive for the happy couple. Guests feel the pinch, too.
Leading up to the big day, there's a laundry list of expenses: buying an outfit, paying for travel and a hotel room, purchasing a gift and arranging childcare. Given the cost of attending, it should come as no surprise that some Americans are skipping a loved one's wedding due to already struggling financially.
RSVPs are not a simple yes or no
Debt reshapes social life, relationships and everyday decisions. For Americans carrying serious unsecured debt, attending social events is no longer a simple yes-or-no decision. Every invitation comes with a quiet financial calculation. Many are navigating a third RSVP option they rarely say out loud: I want to be there, but I cannot afford what saying yes will cost me.
To better understand how debt impacts a person's life, Accredited Debt Relief and Drive Research conducted a survey of 2,000 U.S. adults with at least $10k in unsecured debt. The survey found that nearly eight in 10 respondents skipped at least one event or activity in the past year because of debt, including:
A wedding
A group trip or vacation
Dinner, concert or night out
Birthday or anniversary celebration
Holiday celebration with family
Milestone party (shower or graduation)
Every invitation comes with a quiet financial calculation. Many people in debt are navigating a third RSVP option they rarely say out loud: I want to be there, but I cannot afford what saying yes will cost me.
Saying no to an important event like a sibling's wedding, a niece's graduation or a lifelong friend's birthday can be incredibly painful and take an emotional toll. According to the survey, 68% of respondents feel anxiety when receiving an invitation because they worry about the cost, and 57% worry that their debt makes them seem like a bad friend, partner or family member.
The stigma and privacy concerns surrounding debt may also make it harder to explain why an invitation is declined. In fact, 58% have made up a nonfinancial excuse to skip events they couldn't afford to protect their privacy rather than admit they are struggling. Not only are these Americans carrying debt, but they're also carrying the emotional weight of guilt and embarrassment.
Moving forward with the right support
You don't have to keep missing major life celebrations because of debt. One way you can break the cycle and regain control of your finances is through debt consolidation.
When you sign up for a debt consolidation program like one through Accredited Debt Relief, you can replace high minimum payments across multiple accounts with one, lower monthly payment. With more room in your monthly budget, you can start building a financial life that lets you say yes to joyous occasions with friends and family more often.
Every situation is different, and the right option depends on your unique financial situation. To get a free debt evaluation and see what options are available to you, visit AccreditedDebtRelief.com/Free-Quote.
